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Memories.....

"There are memories that time does not erase....    Forever does not make loss forgettable, only bearable"    - Cassandra Clare What is the Terminal definition of Memory?            Memory is the faculty of the brain by which data or information is encoded, stored and retrieved when needed. It is the retention of information overtime for the purpose of influencing future actions. But what are Memories for us? They are the small moments of joy or sorrow we share with a person we love or acquainted at some point of time. Do you remember the First day when you started speaking or walking? You might not remember that but it is one of the best memories your parents have.  Do you remember the day you won the first race? I do remember that, and it was when I was in Kindergarten. There was a Jalebi (Indian Sweet dish) race, and I being fond of Sweets was having a kind of mouth watering situation and to have that Jalebi I ran and ran so...

True meaning of CARE.........

Who do we refer when we speak about love and care?               " A mother's love is the fuel that enables a normal human being to do the impossible"   - Marion C. Garretty Yes we consider love of our mother to be the most pure and pious one, but don't you think that it's not the only way to compare. Think of those who do not have a Mother from childhood. How will they know the real meaning of Care? There are small acts we all can do to show our care for anyone around us.  A kid sharing it's chocolate with someone around, that's a small act of care. Helping a random person on road is a form of care. Teachers teaching kids without any profit of themselves is a type of care. Father giving money to his kid without the consent of mother is also a type of care. A boyfriend caring for his Menstruating girlfriend or a girlfriend caring for her injured boyfriend. Husband caring for his wife and child after delivery. A son/daughter caring o...

Help... A word with many faces.....

What we understand by the word HELP? Someone is asking for help. But not always a person can speak it out loud. Let's take from the start of journey of the Human Life. A baby, when a baby cries we understand what he/she needs. But there are instances when they don't cry still their mother understands the need. Likewise as we grow up we tend to speak our problems by shouting or crying or even by showing anger. But as time goes and we understand we cannot speak what happens then? Who will understand us? Who will know what we need? Help is not always what we ask for as we grow up. People around us have to understand them be it our parents, teachers, peer-group, someone we love or be any elder around us. When a girl is abused or is raped, she doesn't open up herself to anyone around of fear, shame or any such feelings. She cannot shout for Help. But she remains silent or she shows certain behavioral changes which is a call for help we have to understand. How many cases come out...